Cant Help Falling in Love with You

"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
-- Germaine Greer


I heard this quote for three times now and averytime it hit me, it does in a very meaningful way. It's like either it goes up or down, at the end you will fall again to that very same person.Meaningful? I think it's beautiful.

Look at the MV : Cant Help Falling In Love with You





The Bitter Sweet Love




I cant really get a conclusion actually...and thats why i'm writing. Does it mean he is always beautiful towards you, or no matter how bitter sweet it is, at the end you will always get back to him with lovely feeling....

If its the latter, it happen for so many times. I mean among us and our friends. Maybe this time we feel like : Owh she/he is so nice and the next day : God, how annoyed she/he is, but at the end you both still get back together harmonically.

Its beautiful isn't it to have someone as sweet as the character in the first MV, always be there for you...always play the beautiful sides...soft and always make you feel...NICE. Comfortable. but they both did not actually end up together in the story. This kind of feeling you will get when you are with your bestfriend whose always at your side no matter what happen.but there is no Besty for two different gender.....

Bitter Sweet vs Comfy
which one is love?

Okay, bye! The more I think the more confuse I can be! Jya~

Intelligent Vendalism

The toilet wisdom should never be wabled away
Long Live Intelligent Vendalisme!

-phew pretty dramatic wisdoms filling the toilet wall in the Union ground floot toilet (of course female's) Last time I went there it still clean and clear i think. It took place just in this toilet, not the others. So maybe its already a hub for Intelligent Vandalisme. lol -


What do you think a girl do in the toilets??

• Ehem..ehem..nature's call ~ well as usual
• CRYing : Come on, you watch drama aren't you?
  
• Release Stress : Just sit on the toilet bowl and keep on thinking about what to do next
  
• Check on their make up
• Hiding from someone - the gossip girl they dont want to see or about to bump on in her way out of the restroom?!
  

So isn't it useful and helpful enough to have words of wisdoms to sooth them in those sitaution?

Look at the words below

" Actually everyone is different that's what makes us so special "
-I bet its from someone with care free personality-

get into the toilet ...cheerfully...look at the wall -geleng2 kepala and write up how amazed she is with diffirent attitude among the toilet users are..and she became one of those vandaliser

"Love yourself, no one else will" - so true, and God always do
- I can imagine how unhappy her day is. Who knows she is the girl who use toilet to CRY???-

- she was studying in the Union..then saw her bf with someone else get into an argument - rush into the toilet - stay there for hourse! - and here we go: she get the wisdom of the dayy...

"I'm baking cake tonight. Try it!!! It always cheers me up"

- I might guess it's Sabriza's work as she love baking..hmmm...-

and

"WRITING ON THE WALL IS FAB BUT MAKESURE THE TOILET CLEAN AND TIDY PLEASE GIRL" - I bet its from the Lady cleaning the toilets.lol.

Intelligent Vandalisme vs Cursing Vandalisme both are equally bad, BUT well just imagine, the walls are already ugly with all the writings..and when you read it its piss ur head off? Well at least its kinda better.huuu~

p/s : NO I didn't do it. I dont vadalise!

Existence

and HOW else Do You Want To Deny HIS Existance?

We will show them our sign in the universe and in their own selves, until it becomes manifest to them that this al-Quran is the truth. It is not sufficient in regard to your Lord that He is the witness over all things [al Quran , 41:53]

There are theories here and there used just to deny His existance say it Darwin Theory of Evolution. Do they make any sense for a certain species to exist in between a period of time. Have those Profs everthink that the theories is actually saying the human itself will never stay as human? Rooted from monkey we changed intu human, don't you think the theory shall not deny the possibility for us to be in other form? But we did not?

Base on Darwin's Theory , this should be expected in the near future!

Theory of evolution keep on stressing on we and the world is actually starting from a single cell, so where is that cell from? Dust? So where does that Dust comes from?

talking about SEX

Talking about SEX

Yeah I know what cross your mind! Who told you to watch PORN? I dont meant SEX = PORN or anyway round! It is a much more bigger issue than what you think it is. Begin with the END in mind :

What Do You Want To Result From Sex Education (or name it whatever)


In Europe, most of the countries(let say all of them) practically have Sex Education at school.But have you go trough whats the syllibus is , and how far they had been successfully achieved their GOAL? Anyway, what is their GOAL as in the OBJECTIVE of having them?


What worries the European is the high numbers of teen pregnancy and thats the main reason why they are schooling them about sex, but how many of them had successfully cut down the teen pregnancy's rate?England itself is still in worrying state. So copying their syllibus is just a matter of stupidity on our side. So who can we look at?



HOLLAND aka DUTCH is the answer


How they make it?


They are stressing on HOW TO SAY NO TO SEX? What is the complication of having SEX at the early age and how many of those wished they began a bit more late than what they already did, how to have “safe and pleasurable sex”, the importance of responsibility and how to recognise the symptoms of sexually transmitted diseases.We need to educate them about WHAT THEY DO WHICH BRINGS THEM IN THE CONSEQUENCES OF FEELING WANTED TO HAVE SEX and how to avoid the consequences. All of this are in the Book , al-Quran.



We are not educating our kids of HOW TO MAKE SEX! They had better watch porn if they wish! Eventhough the Dutch are treating Sex as something normal and go deeper into How to make it the Safe Way, I never think we should treat it the same way. So its goes back to our End Goal.


However, what amazed me is the fact that, even the Dutch are very open about Sex, the Dutch teenagers lose their virginity at the age of 17.7 in average compared to 16 in England. Quoted form the article:

"A study of teenagers in both countries found that while boys and girls in the Netherlands gave “love and commitment” as the main reason for losing their virginity, boys in Britain cited peer pressure and physical attraction. "

What They need to do to simply SAY NO especially the over loyal girls out there whose actually being foolished by the boyfriend. The girls need to know how a MALE think. They are all into SEX not the girl herself. Sometimes girls can be foolished enough to misunderstood that fact!

Mamat : Baby...baby sayang sayang tak?
Minah : Mestilah....Baby sanggup buat aaapa saje utk sayang! Cane sayang boleh tanya lagii niii
Mamat : Erm..-sambil bermain2 rambut Minah-...kalau Baby sayang, sayang...kitaa...'ttuuutt' ?
Minah: Sayang....mana boleh.....
Mamat : Baby kata Baby sayang kat sayang?
Minah : Tapi Sayang....
Mamat : Tu tanda cinta kita Baby...Kita akan kahwin juga kan? Sayang takkan tinggalkan baby...Ke Baby ada niat nak tinggalkan sayang? sbb tu baby tak nak kan?

Minah keliru..kemaru...dah mula mahu...

Its all about valueing herself and always bear in mind about the complication. There are 30,978 thousands cases in Malaysia itself, those are the example.If we can grab all those who had been trough it to tell the others about the complication it might help a lot to create the changes.


And of course, we can blend it with Islamic View we are majority Muslim country aren't we? Everyone knows what God say about Zina, how to avoid Zina and what kind of Zina .



More source : Cutting Teen Pregnancy Dutch Way
Statistic anak luar nikah : Utusan
Sex Eduxtion : Why Britain Should Go Dutch
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That is what you can do before things happen. Before the pregnancy occur. Anyway, not all the unmarried pregnancy results from Hubungan Rela, whatabout RAPE Case? Someone whose in a tight position?



Everyone knows no matter how worst the RAPE case is , the one who get the BLAME is the girl! So where is our FAIR judgement?
I just wana talk about sex education, so I better stop here before making my post more lengthy.


-call me feminist, i dont mind -

So You Are Genius?

Is there is any Genius without Brain?

As we often hear Beauty with Brain and Beauty without Brain

Will it be possible to have a Genius without Brain?

and why dont you asked about the Ugly with Brain ? or The Ugly without Brain?

or will it be paethetic enough to hear that?


*why beauty is always being judged?

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So whats make u considered as the brainer?

NERDY?

Big Glass- Thick Book - Gadget Wise

or

Cold Appearance - All Black - Mozart Wise - Not understandable?



I considered the option one is HARDWORKING while the optioan 2 is BEING DIFFERENT. If you go trough psychologist, you could point your finger for this option 2 people as those who have personality disorder.Thats what commonly happen.

It maybe, the outer world is not entertaining for them,. and they keep on focusing on their speciality say music , photography, gadget etc instead of not using their brain by fooling around. I do not believe in genius, sorry to say, I believe God had made us equally the same. We might have one point lacking than the others, but thats what make us complete each other.

Who can stand living in a world full with musician?

A cook also a genius i considered...

What makes you genius?

Its when you always come out with some PoooPy! Something different with less time or sweat compared to others, but then, when you grew up with it say Adi Putra, Mathematics is like his food, so how possible u compared him to a kid who never been thaught about Mathematic?

Our brain consist of neurons and dendrits! Millions of them, it not just growing, but it also dying! So, what make you genius, is how fast your dendrit and neurons connecting each others, which determined and can be enhanced by how often you use them to think!



and what astonished me is the facts below:-

There is a Music Genius without Hearing : Beethoven

A Physic Genius without Movement Ability/Paralised : Hawkins


so: we are all geniuses but we are the one killing the genius factor in ourself!